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JonB's avatar

In three years, I dropped 100 pounds, going from 309 lbs to 208. I’ve stagnated at this weight for a while because I’m happy with myself. Although my BMI is about 29, I believe I should continue to lose weight. Also, there are what's called ‘saboteurs’ saying I shouldn't go further because they feel threatened. My formula measured energy in and energy out, calories consumed, and calories expended.

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jeremy parmet's avatar

This made me think of something semi-related. I've always been pretty into meditation. A while ago I tried sitting 2 hours a day, got lots of benefits, but still regressed somewhat when my environment suddenly changed. I managed to hold it together but it took a while to build back up to a disciplined practice.

I started to go to two connected Zen centers in my area about 6 months ago, and began to come into contact with people who I think of as literal Bodhisattvas. Like people who radiate ease and joy. I also spent a long stretch going in for a dharma talk every Thursday (fell out of it a few weeks back) which was helpful for clarifying compassionate action, what "Bodhisattva" actually meant in a human, non-magical way, met people who were less top-of-the-mountain but working sincerely on themselves to be better people for all beings.

It's all come around to deepen my understanding of Zen Buddhism and Mahayana, and now meditation seems more important when it's for everyone else. Not even like never getting angry anymore, although becoming less practice helps, but being able to understand and accept angry people. It's brought a lot more of a sense of purpose to my sits and I've been back to the 2 hour a day routine, which seems to be a good number for me although it's pretty difficult to stick to. I've also managed to bounce back from lapses when I've not sat for a day or sat less, and I feel less perfectionistic when sitting with other people.

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